In 2012, the winter nights in Xi'an were bone-chillingly cold.
Xiao Yao is a lover who is deeply anxious. He is passionate and wants to be Tang Qian's salvation. But his unrestrained care often turns into self-motivated devotion, touching the unhealed wounds in the other person's heart over and over again.
Tang Qian is trapped in the shadow left by past relationships, and is used to avoidance and alienation. She is afraid of bound love and is afraid of being restrained in the name of "for your own good". He was obviously moved, but he always put up thick walls to keep out those who came close.
The misunderstandings piled up one after another, the suspicions during the team building night, and the spontaneous overtures in the morning all became familiar shackles in Tang Qian's eyes. The sentence "You are exactly the same as them" shattered the remaining tenderness between the two.
The old man Liu Yu once again entangled him late at night. Tang Qian, who was desperate, put down all her pride and made three calls for help. Xiao Yao was so angry after the dispute that he chose to turn a blind eye. When I woke up at midnight, I suddenly woke up and dialed back, only the cold shutdown prompt was left.
Three minutes of persistence resulted in the first decisive separation.
Zhao Lei, who behaves appropriately, appears quietly and reveals all the dislocations in this relationship.
Fourteen years of tossing and pulling, the heartbeat is real, and the hurt is also real. The two men with holes all over their bodies are attracted to each other and stab each other repeatedly. During the long winter, they used tears and misses to complete a verification of love.
Concept: In an intimate relationship, passion does not mean correctness. No matter how deep the love is, if you ignore the other person's trauma and boundaries, it will only lead to mutual consumption and regret.