There are many things in the world that are clearly right and wrong, black and white.
But it's not everything
I think not getting what you want is an obsession.
The fear of losing something after something is gained is an obsession.
In reality, this kind of obsession brings happiness to many people
The same obsession has also caused many people to regret their lives. Oscar Wilde said: "One flower and one world, one tree and one Bodhi."
I said: "Everything in the world depends on one attachment and one thought."