How to deal with avoidant lovers? People have to learn to pull themselves up.
At the lowest point in his life, Lu Yu fell in love with Zhao Min at first sight at his friend's cousin's birthday party. After he was framed and resigned, it was Zhao Jin who helped him regain his broken confidence bit by bit. As they get along day and night, feelings secretly arise.
But Zhao Jin is too good at this love game with the elderly - getting close enough, so far away that no trace is left, and then disappearing suddenly, as if he had never appeared before.
At the age of twenty-three, she said:
"Lu Yu, listen to me. Love is too painful. We can't put ourselves in such a miserable cage... Okay, Brother Yu, let's stop here. We are already very happy to meet each other." She smiled, "I am not... The kind of woman suitable to be a wife."
Three years later, at the age of twenty-six, she asked him:
"Are you going to propose to me that day?"
Lu Yu took a deep look at her, noncommittal.
"Brother Yu, why didn't you give me the ring earlier?"
"Huh?"
"You are too careless. For someone like me, you should propose quickly." She said in a frivolous tone, as if she was joking, "There are too many people chasing me, and it's hard to line up."
"Okay," Lu Yu said, "I'm going to work hard to catch up now."
Be careful when it comes to love bombing. If you don't love it, why bother?
Life has always been full of different paths, so how can you always get what you want?
Facing an avoidant lover, all Lu Yu can do is wait for her to look back.
Love without knowing it × Redemption × HE × High-contrast heroine
Intention: A moment of compassion makes people feel divine.