There is always such a relationship.
She's having a good time, but you're having a hard time.
She's having a hard time, and you're having a hard time.
When the down-and-out girl met the glamorous girl at a party, she thought that there was only competition and unwillingness between them, but she found that each other was the end.
Intention: Hidden beneath the comparison is the desire to get closer, and it took a long detour to realize that it had to be her.