Shen Qingyi, a female chess player, ranked 79th in the world, has been stuck for five years.
At the turning point in the middle game, she always chooses the safest move. It's not that you don't know how to attack, and you don't dare to take a gamble - if you try your best and still lose, it proves that you are indeed not the material.
Her parents said: "Come back and take over the store. At least there is a way out."
A French restaurant that is about to close down. There is a woman named Su Tangdi standing in the back kitchen. Her cooking is standard. She can't fault her, and she can't fault herself either.
All the dishes are made according to the recipes left by her mother, and every step is accurate.
One doesn't dare to win, and the other doesn't dare to change.
Later, two people who only knew how to copy decided to try to be themselves for once.
One taught her, "Stop copying, make your own."
One taught her, "Don't be afraid, you can win by yourself."
They are each other's chess strategies and recipes, and they are also each other's only standard answers.
Intention: To make continuous progress and have the courage to move forward