Gentleness Grows

A wicked woman deserves a loyal dog. Campus novel, from meeting each other in the third grade of junior high school to falling in love in high school, and then being together later. They are all sweet articles. The heroine of the story is a young lady. From the beginning of the story to the end of the story, her fortune goes smoothly. The heroine is not a good girl in the traditional sense. She is lazy, she is playful, she is lustful, and she has been able to manipulate the male protagonist for many years with peace of mind. The heroine does not need saving, repentance, or many hardships. She is favored by fate. The male protagonist of the story is a poor boy at the beginning. After being molested by the eldest lady, he falls in love with the female protagonist. He is a typical gentle person, with basically no temper and no major flaws. He is a cold and compassionate person. He is not a dank man who was saved by the heroine. He has grown up step by step and always likes the heroine. There weren't many emotional scenes at the beginning. The male protagonist had a crush on the female protagonist for a long time. At that time, he was just a passerby. Later, they went to high school, and the male protagonist grew up step by step, becoming a man worthy of the female protagonist, and they finally got together. This book is a bit abusive to the male protagonist. What the male protagonist endures is what he is capable of enduring. One of them made a fuss, and the other accepted everything. They are willing to work with each other and are in perfect harmony. There is not much description of other characters, but they are all gently supported by fate. Concept: Extreme good and extreme evil are never opposites, but the positive and negative sides of a mirror. Tan Naozhong indulged Zhou Sisi's willfulness with his bottomless tenderness. Zhou Sisi feeds Tan Naozhong's obsession with natural demands. The two people consume each other and achieve each other, like yin and yang poles. It's unclear who is right and who is wrong, but they just happen to be embedded in each other. This is not a story about "good people influencing bad people", but a story about "all things are interdependent and mutually reinforcing each other". Really healthy love is not about cutting off one's own edges and corners to cater to the other person, but about finding that balance point in the long struggle and running-in, and then standing there together to become better people. Gentleness is not innate. Gentleness is choosing not to treat others badly after being treated badly countless times. And being loved is not something you are born with. Being loved is something you finally learn to cherish after being pampered countless times. I hope every Tan Naozhong can wait until his Zhou Sisi looks back. I hope every Zhou Sisi can be worthy of her Tan Nao Bell.