"My Blind Date Diary" is a light comedy novel centered on the marriage dilemma of modern urban youth. It adopts the form of a first-person diary and records more than 30 absurd and real blind dates experienced by an ordinary urban white-collar worker in one year. The work uses humorous and delicate strokes to connect all kinds of blind dates - from the "soul-torture type" HR girl to the "mom's boy" potential stock, from the "refined egoistic" financial man to the "Buddhist-like casual" literary young man - every encounter is a micro-anatomy of contemporary emotional concepts.
On the surface, the story is about a blind date, but in fact it outlines a contemporary urban emotional Ukiyo: value conversion in the marriage and love market, the invisible imprint of the original family, identity anxiety in the social media era, and individual struggles in the loneliness economy. In the tug-of-war between "condition comparisons" and "heart-beating moments", the protagonist gradually shifts from the anxiety of "completing the task" to a frank examination of his own emotional needs. The work is full of laughs but not just funny. Under the relaxed shell of "Grand Prize for Confused Behaviors of Human Dating", it hides a gentle inquiry into the nature of love: When everything is quantified, do we still remember the original appearance of the heartbeat?
This work is not only suitable as a relaxing read before going to bed, but also can arouse deep resonance among urban singles. It is known as a healing emotional note that "you can see yourself when you smile".
Intention: It is about blind dates, encounters, and ultimately how "I" did not lose myself in the game of loving and being loved.