I was once deeply in love, willing to make excuses for the other person's deceptions again and again, ignoring all the flaws and concealments. He clearly sensed that something was wrong, but relied on self-deception to maintain the relationship, suppressing his grievances in his heart, and blindly being tolerant.
Until the layers of lies could no longer be rounded off, the accumulated disappointment finally shattered my obsession. I slowly woke up from blind love, saw clearly the nature of deception, and reviewed the internal friction and harm caused to me by my love brain.
This story records the whole process of me being addicted to lies, self-paralysis, and finally breaking free from obsession and finding myself. It is written for everyone who gives blindly in relationships and is easily deceived. I hope everyone can wake up in time and love themselves first.
Purpose: Analyze the psychological dilemma of the love brain, expose the deception and concealment in relationships, convey the concept of sober self-love and reject self-inflicted love and marriage, and tell readers not to lose themselves in lies.