It talks about growth including separation, joy and sorrow. Growth can be lazy, miserable, crazy about love, and of course it can be self-consistent. It can be multifaceted. You don't have to force yourself when you encounter pain. Cry, cry loudly, see your ten thousand shortcomings, and also fall in love with your ten thousand advantages.
Concept: Growth is not necessarily painful nor joyous. It is a mixture of various flavors on the tongue. It can be swallowed whether it is sweet or bitter.