Everyone said that Su Wanhuo became a top heroine.
At the age of thirty-four, she holds a teaching position in a university, is deeply engaged in academic research, holds more than a hundred honors, is transparent, independent, talented and beautiful, and lives a dignified and dazzling life. She is sober and wise, and can see through the warmth and coldness of human relationships. She thought she was invincible and would never be trapped by love for half her life.
Until that midsummer, Lu Ze and Wen Wen entered the game.
He is a gentleman who is considerate and well-proportioned. He offers all her preferences, catches all her desire to share, and appreciates her versatility and transparent nature. The extremely gentle beginning gradually disintegrated the layers of defense she had built up due to her family of origin, and for the first time, she, who had been deprived of love for half her life, encountered a two-way redemption.
She took off her armor, showed her sincerity, and rushed to the future full of expectations, but she gradually fell into a silent tug of war.
He was hot and cold, advancing and retreating erratically. When he was enthusiastic, his eyes were all about her, and when he was distant, he disappeared without a trace. Whenever the relationship wants to go further, he habitually avoids, silently and retreats. At first, she thought he had avoidant attachment. She felt sorry for his cowardice, tolerated his withdrawal, made excuses for all his perfunctory actions, and maintained this unclear ambiguity alone with sincerity.
She pondered over and over again, spent countless late nights tossing and internalizing, exhausted all her enthusiasm and tenderness, and also lost her calm light.
It wasn't until the layers of falsehoods were exposed that she suddenly realized: she was never avoidant by nature, but just not partial enough.
The so-called tenderness and considerateness are costless routines; the so-called admiration is an irresponsible pastime. He was first tempted and provoked, enjoying her sincerity and dedication, but he still refused to make a firm choice or promise a future.
After being disappointed enough, Su Wan decided to leave the show, cut off all ties and left the show with dignity.
In the future, mountains and rivers will never meet again, and old things will never go back. This pull that started in midsummer and finally made her realize that the best rest of her life is never about hoping for favors from others, but about healing and strengthening herself, and living her own glorious life. Qianfan passes by and her obsession with love fades away. The top heroine is always loyal to herself.
Purpose: This article uses the misplaced affection and emotional pull of the heroine to reveal the nature of ambiguous consumption and avoidance of love. Abandon the love brain and self-inflicted internal friction, and convey a clear and independent view of marriage and love: true love is never a trial of hot and cold, but a firm choice and initiative. The story aims to tell readers: sincerity does not need to be paid wrongly, and deep love does not need to be humble. In the face of a consuming relationship, stopping losses in time is the highest form of self-love. Women do not need to rely on others to gain value. Only by letting go of their obsessions and achieving self-improvement can they break free from the shackles of love and live an independent and dazzling life.