Tenderness and doting are the shell, and absolute control is the core.
I pamper you to the point of being lawless, but I can also take you in with just a thought.
Let you get used to relying on me, getting used to being loved, and getting used to being controlled. In the end, you can no longer live without me and can only surrender to me.
Intention: Domination is not possession, it is catching all your uneasiness in my own way.