Vygotsky said: Teaching should be in front of development, build scaffolding for the individual, and guide him to reach heights that he could not otherwise reach.
So is their love.
His love sprouts first, matures first, and is brave first.
He always walks ahead, never rushing, not urging, or waiting for a response.
Just give the other party a gentle support, a steady lift, and the confidence to take your time.
One is responsible for leading and the other is responsible for growing.
In the end, the two transcended their own limitations in both directions and completed the two-way development of life and love.
Shen Yubai
Emotionally stable, gentle and transparent, and highly observant.
Precocious, restrained, brave.
Love is always one step ahead.
He knows how to like, know how to restrain, and how to wait.
When the other party is withdrawn, timid, and closed-off, silently put up all the "scaffolds": tolerance, patience, preference, and cover-up.
His love is the other person's entire zone of recent development.
Lin Zhixu
Sensitive, slow to warm up, self-enclosed, and habitually retreat.
Don't know how to express, don't dare to confirm, and extremely insecure.
Heartbeat always lags behind, love always hesitates.
He cannot break through the shackles of his personality and can only rely on the gentle support of others.
Intention: I will be your scaffolding and help you get out of the closed wasteland until you can love me equally, passionately and without fear.