What I write is not the reality of the world, but the common joys and sorrows in the ivory tower! These are the encounters and misses that maybe you and I have seen, heard, and passed by before!
Maybe we all think that we have forgotten some things, or maybe it is still the stubborn cinnabar mole that grows and drips with blood.
However, I missed it after all!
But why? !
There is no answer, even if there is one! I have already missed the end of the final exam!
I don't intend for you to recall the past, regret it, or cry loudly (perhaps we have all already done so!).
I just want to dig out the past if I can't get over it, see it thoroughly and then bury it!
I like what the great master of psychology Adler said: No matter how we meet and part in the past, the past itself cannot control the rest of my life. What traps me is the meaning I give to this regret.
I hope my readers will never regret reading this book!
Philosophy: The author has personally experienced the regrets of youth, and witnessed the hasty ending of countless relationships that should have been perfect during his more than 20 years in college. This article is written with real and ordinary teenage emotions, without dramatic conflicts, and only restores the hesitation, cowardice and timing deviation of ordinary people's love. Explain through the core of Adlerian psychology: It is never the past that traps people, but the obsession with self-given regrets. The book is updated at the pace of four BEs and one HE, unraveling the missed truths and healing the troubled youth. It not only looks back on the dusty old days, but also serves as a warning to those in love today. We hope readers will see regrets clearly, let go of obsessions, cherish the present, and rush to a happy ending.