Shen Qingdu, the legitimate daughter of a general, was honest, foolish and kind in her previous life. She treated her relatives and loved ones with all her heart, but she ended up being wronged and died tragically in the snow. Once she was reborn, she lost her gentleness and planned every step with a cold heart. She deals with a hypocritical concubine, a cold-blooded relative, an ambitious scumbag, and competes with Xie Yanci, the cold and cold Prince Jing who sees through her disguise. She does not believe in redemption from others, and relies on herself to clear old grudges, break free from the chess game, and slowly reconcile with the past amidst the machinations of love and hatred. She finally understands that all living beings are suffering, and only through self-transcendence can she complete her life.
Purpose: 1. Core Purpose: Only through self-transcendence can we achieve liberation.
No one can completely save your life. Relying on family affection, love, and the protection of others is ultimately futile. All pain, difficulties, and obsessions can only be relieved, broken, and healed by yourself. The real salvation always comes from yourself.
2. Get rid of dependent life
Abandon the traditional old saying that the female protagonist relies on the male protagonist to make a comeback and rely on love to find her destination. Women don't have to rely on others to survive. Even if they are alone, they can hold the chips and control their destiny.
3. Reconcile yourself with suffering
Revenge is not the ultimate goal. Nirvana is to let go of the hatred in your heart and reconcile with the scarred past. The pain does not need to be forgotten, but there is no need to be trapped in the cage of hatred for life.
4. A restrained and sober view of love
A good relationship is not about binding each other to save each other, but about two complete and independent souls understanding each other. The male protagonist can sympathize with the female protagonist, but will not forcefully interfere with her choices and respect the female protagonist's independent pursuit of life.
5. Reflection on the reality of human nature
Reveal the truth about the indifference of family ties in powerful families and the selfishness of people's hearts. Recognize the selfish nature of human nature. Don't be blindly kind or soft-hearted. Stay clear-headed and protect yourself, and keep the bottom line of your heart.