Twenty-eight-year-old Su Wan was once the most sensible lover and the most peaceful workplace person in the eyes of others. In order to have a five-year relationship and a stable life, she voluntarily gave up a top design offer in a first-tier city, curbed her career ambitions, habitually accommodated her lover, gave up opportunities, and wronged herself. She regarded "living a stable life with dependence" as the ultimate answer in life, and became a supporting character who revolved around others.
She put in all her compromises and sacrifices, but what she got in return was not cherishment and preference, but self-interested suppression from her boyfriend and wanton plunder from her colleagues. The design plan that she stayed up late to polish was stolen and replaced by her colleagues, and the hard work was wasted. When she expressed her grievances, her lover of five years only advised her to keep to herself and not to show off. Gentleness and sensibleness eventually became the shackles that trapped him.
The love filter was completely shattered. Su Wan resolutely cut off the consumptive relationship, withstood the multiple pressures of her parents urging marriage, criticism from relatives and friends, and isolation in the workplace, and broke away from worldly discipline and emotional shackles. Saying goodbye to her please-pleaser personality and emotional infighting, she no longer expected others to tell the truth, and instead went deep into the design profession, avoiding the red sea of involution, and taking root in the niche residential renovation track.
No tyrants always save, no bloody entanglements, no love-minded thoughts. From a timid and timid workplace good guy to a solo designer, Su Wan gradually broke through the situation, healed and grew up, established a foothold based on his strength, and established his own studio. There are no shortcuts in life, and the most reliable foundation is never the preference of others, but the self that never depreciates. The evening breeze does not cross others, but she finally crosses the mountains and rivers on her own and lives her own life with great light.
Purpose: Abandoning romantic attachment, women can achieve spiritual and economic independence through their careers, and a successful life does not require marriage to be divulged by others.