"Oh, I'm not waiting for you to arrange a blind date for me. If you don't have the resources, I'd be fine if I were single."
Silence
"Mom, I'm just kidding..."
"Jin Yiyun, just wait! I'll meet you this weekend!"
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"Zhang Chenghuan, I said forget it back then and you agreed."
"I regretted it."
"You have no credibility with me. I made a mistake in trusting you once, and I won't make a mistake again."
Purpose: When you love someone, you need to give them enough security and be responsible. Don't let them go just because you're afraid you can't afford it or you're not worthy. That would be unfair to the other person.