Lin Zhiyu used to always cater to everyone. Her parents asked her to stabilize the family, her lover expected her to temper her temperament, and her colleagues expected her to give in on everything. She trapped herself in the framework defined by the world, giving in and compromising on everything. She was trapped in internal friction and anxiety all year round, and lived exhausted and depressed day after day. A serious illness made her realize that she had lost herself in trying to please others.
After she recovered, she completely removed all her shackles. He refused the stable job arranged by his family, put down the relationship that consumed him, moved away from the crowded and noisy city, rented a house with a courtyard in a small town, and ran a handicraft studio. No longer care about the opinions of others, no longer pursue fame and fortune, spend your free time growing flowers, reading books, taking short trips, arrange your life as you like, and put your own comfort first in everything.
By chance, I met Jiang Xu, who had a clear and relaxed personality. He would never force her to change and respect all her choices. The two of them got along comfortably and freely, loving each other but not binding each other. They don't have to force each other to meet secular standards. They can feel the ordinary fireworks together and look down upon the troubles of gains and losses.
The world always urges people to move forward, but Lin Zhiyu finally understands that life does not have to be lived in the eyes of others. Let go of your obsessions, stay away from consumption, follow your heart, take your time, spend every day relaxed and leisurely, and then you can truly live at ease.
Purpose: urban life