We have empathy that is hard to find in others, but we cannot escape the innate pain and low self-esteem. Every accommodation is exhausting ourselves and every tenderness is wrapped in guilt. Trying to fill each other's imperfections with love only leads to deeper internal friction in the end. It turns out that some encounters are only suitable for short-term warmth and cannot accompany each other for the rest of their lives. In the end, they can only bear the lingering tinnitus and the depression in their hearts alone.
Purpose: Understand that each other's imperfections may not be suitable for staying together. Growth is not about healing scars but learning to coexist with pain, regret, and tenderness.