Shen Yu had a crush on Jiang Yanyu for four years.
That marriage, which began with a family engagement, was the fulfillment of his wish for a young and lonely man, but it was also a one-way torment that lasted for three years.
He tempered his sharp edge, lost his pride, and was confined to the daily routine of fireworks. He was gentle and accommodating, waiting silently, enduring the prejudice of his family and the contempt of the world, and survived countless long nights alone in an empty room. But at that time, Jiang Yanyu was an unruly, arrogant and proud son of heaven. He was emboldened to be favored, had an angular appearance, and was cold and hard-spoken. He took his forbearance and accommodation as a matter of course, and spent his seven years of sincerity wantonly and let him down.
Over the years, love will eventually become exhausted. Having accumulated all kinds of disappointments, Shen Yu decisively left the scene and left the scene gracefully, cutting off the painful past of three years.
It wasn't until the moment of loss that Jiang Yanyu finally woke up.
The cold and empty home, the long nights when no one was waiting for him, and the tenderness he could never find again made him see clearly his awkward and clumsy love. The pride and arrogance of youth all collapsed. The formerly aloof and wealthy young man lost all his aura and arrogance and began a long and humble pursuit of his husband.
He survived the dangerous pregnancy alone, washed away his frivolousness, bowed his head to atone for his sins, and ran gently day after day, using extreme patience and single-minded preference, melting his frozen heart bit by bit, and making up for the debt he had owed over the years.
Old misunderstandings are solved layer by layer, and all the old worries are revealed.
One parting, two growths, seven years wasted, and finally we meet again.
This time, he put aside all the absurdity of his youth, abandoned the shackles of disparity in family status, and in the name of equal love, exchanged sincerity for sincerity, and spent the rest of his life.
From being patient in one direction to rushing in both directions; from being devastated to being happy every year.
Year after year, all the wind and rain pass, the world is full of fireworks, but if you love one person, you will finally have a perfect life.
Purpose: This article takes the seven-year love-hate bondage and the tender redemption as the main thread to explore the emotional core of youthful recklessness and belated growth, one-way devotion and equal love, regretful misses and making up for the rest of life.
Young love is often clumsy, proud and sharp. It always disguises its sincerity with willfulness, disguises care with indifference, and ultimately consumes the purest affection with its own hands. Through the transformation process of two people from a deformed marriage with unequal family backgrounds and unbalanced love to letting go of the past and maturing in both directions, the story expresses that true love is never a humble accommodation of one party and a matter of course for the other, but mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, and equality.
All deep-seated regrets pave the way for growth; all youthful absurdities will eventually be cured by the gentleness of the rest of life.
The article breaks the cliché of "reunion after breaking the mirror = easy forgiveness" and emphasizes the weight of awakening, the process of atonement, and the sincerity of change: love is not only the heartbeat, but also restraint, cherishment, responsibility and long-term perseverance.
In the end, the best emotional state is interpreted with the stability and perfection of a family of three:
We still choose each other through ups and downs, we have washed away our frivolousness and are still gentle and dedicated, we stay together year after year, and we are sincere and unswerving.