Love is not enough to be close. Love is seeing each other.
It took Qiao Yu a long time to understand this; it took Xiang Wan even longer.
There is no right or wrong in this story, just two people who haven't learned to love yet - one who desperately wants to get in, and one who doesn't know how to open the door.
In the end, they learned to feel pain and move forward within their respective boundaries.
Concept: Love is seeing and also a boundary. Guard your own shore first, then you will know how to embrace the waves