"Don't Hate the Sea: It's Sunny Again, I've Lost What I Love"

The continuous rain in Jiangyu City has relieved the heat of midsummer, and also made Li Siyun's upcoming marriage full of coldness. A phone call finalized the divorce at the Civil Affairs Bureau on Wednesday. Ten years of companionship came to an end. There was no entanglement, and only the heroine calmly agreed. On the other hand, her husband Gu Wenqing got his long-cherished wish, but he felt inexplicably depressed. In an instant, he put aside his distracting thoughts and drove to Qingmei Gu Xiao's date. Gu Wenqing was longing for a divorce. In order to appease Gu Xiao, he held a special photo frame as a bargaining chip to restrain Li Siyun. He repeatedly used this threat to force her to compromise. In this relationship, Li Siyun spent ten years of her youth. She used to be cheerful and enthusiastic, but she was willing to temper her edges and tolerate without any bottom line for love. However, her day-to-day accommodation failed to earn her staying together and cherishing her. Instead, she indulged her husband's change of heart and indifference. He felt at ease between the two women, regarding the years of love as a bondage, and was full of longing to break away from the marriage and stay with his sweetheart. On the eve of the divorce, Li Siyun was the only one left in the empty wedding room. She drank alone, not feeling sad about the breakup, but only regretting the ten years she had spent in vain. Looking back at the journey, she hated her lover for breaking his promise and empathizing with others. She also complained that she was so caught up in love that she lost her original self. After being drunk, I woke up in the middle of the night and unintentionally dug out a diary that had been dusted for many years in the study. The yellowed diary recorded the daily life from high school to college, hiding a lively girl who had never been touched by love. Instead of rushing to a new life immediately, at the point where she was about to divorce, Li Siyun looked back on her youth through old words, and contrasted the devastated reality with her youthful and innocent past. The story uses the unbalanced marriage and love between the two to reveal that one-sided love is ultimately a regrettable event, explores the cost of losing oneself in relationships, and uses a regretful separation to warn readers not to be humble in love and lose their unique self. Concept: The novel begins with the heroine Li Siyun approaching divorce. It relies on images such as rainy nights, empty houses, and old diaries to compare the young girl's green years with her humble post-marriage life, and deeply analyze the mental consumption caused by an unbalanced marriage and love relationship. The male protagonist Gu Wenqing cares about Qingmei. He takes advantage of the female protagonist's cherished photo frame to take advantage of his weaknesses. He ignores ten years of companionship and dedication for many years, revealing the abnormal phenomenon in some real relationships where one party blindly favors the other party and consumes the other party wantonly. The article uses the heroine's diaries from high school to college, and compares her carefree youth to the present moment of being tortured by marriage, to concretely show the whole process of her constantly giving up her bottom line and losing her character in love. It is intended to criticize blind giving and love-minded self-sacrifice, pointing out that unprincipled accommodation cannot be exchanged for cherishment, and will only encourage the other party's indifference and selfishness. At the same time, I use this ten-year relationship that ended regrettably to reflect on the love misunderstandings of contemporary people: many people put the cart before the horse in love, blindly cater to their partners, and slowly lose their original selves. The heroine did not start a new life immediately, but was immersed in old memories and reviewed the past. It is intended to guide readers to face the pain caused by wrong love and learn to distinguish false feelings. The work conveys the concept of self-love first through the heart-wrenching love and marriage story, and warns readers that no matter how deeply they love someone, they must keep their own bottom line and never ruin their youth and original vivid life for love.