Her name is Zhou Shuhua. She has been married for five years and is a "good wife" in everyone's eyes.
Her mother-in-law praised her for being virtuous, her husband said she was sensible, and even her own father thought she was marrying the right person. No one knows that her husband's tenderness is an act, her mother-in-law's smile is fake, and that her father, who is always right and always angry, has never been on her side.
She thought she could endure it forever. I endured it until I got pregnant, I endured it until I discovered that the sentence "Work overtime tonight" on my husband's cell phone was sent to someone else, I endured it until my mother-in-law brought chicken soup and said with a smile, "Drink it, what will happen to a child without milk?" She suddenly didn't want to endure it anymore. At three o'clock in the morning, she sent a message: "Do you want a divorce?" The other party replied with one word: "?"
This question mark is the end of her five-year marriage. She took the child and slammed the door. Everyone said she was crazy - her mother-in-law cried and chanted Buddha's name, her father slammed the table and scolded her for being ignorant, but her best friend Wang Yezi smiled: "You finally live like a human being."
Divorce is not the end, it is the beginning. She went to see her best friend Sun Yan - the woman who was also cheated on and chose to endure it. Sun Yan went crazy and took her daughter into the river. There was a sentence written in the suicide note: "What should I do with Xiaomi?"
Zhou Shuhua stood in front of the window and saw her reflection. I heard that my ex-husband had his tail between his legs, my parents' flower shop was booming, and my mother-in-law's frequency of burning incense and worshiping Buddha increased dramatically. The world hasn't changed, but she has. She finally knew: If you obey, you won't die, but if you don't, you won't die either. Just stay alive.
This is not a cool article. This is the story of a woman living from a "mud figure" to a "human being". Every woman who is still enduring can see herself in it.
Purpose: I don't want to write about divorce, I want to write about how a person can break through the curse of being good for you