One sentence version:
She said no three times.
Every time, you are one step closer to yourself.
Full version:
It's not that anyone doesn't love enough, it's that everyone's position in the relationship is different.
Tachibana Kanade: His center is only himself. Su couldn't get in either.
Wu Wenli: He has Su Ye at the center, but he wants Su Ye to come over and enter his orbit.
Lin Yaji: His center is not in Su Ye, but he does not require Su Ye to enter his center. He stood in his place, and Sue stood in hers. He doesn't push, he doesn't push, he doesn't demand.
It took Su also nineteen years to go from "being needed" to "being valued" and finally to "valuing yourself."
The highest form of cherishing oneself is not to die alone or to want no one.
It's about centering yourself and then choosing someone.
This person does not need to "center her" - because she is already in the center.
He just had to not push her, not squeeze her, not ask her to leave that position.
Then she stood.
He was nearby, standing too.
It's not that he's underneath her, it's not that he's above her.
It was him beside her, where she could see but not block her.
Intention: cherish yourself