I don't write this article to provoke confrontation and quarrel. The essence is just my doubts about love and the construction of intimate relationships after living for so many years. In psychosocial development theory, people are often hesitant to choose between intimacy or loneliness in early adulthood. People usually regard the construction of marriage as the final indicator and form of the completion and even success of an intimate relationship, turning marriage into an administrative task in life. However, building a healthy and intimate relationship has become the most neglected thing for everyone. In the current most confusing state of life, being pushed by the social atmosphere to complete a major choice that affects the entire life, this can hardly be said to be correct under universal education. Nor am I trying to say that choosing to get married is wrong. It's just that marriage is a test of two people's responsibilities, morals, abilities, and various family factors. These things can almost push the relationship between two people to the bottom of the ranking. The rights and obligations given to two people in marriage by current social policies, economic levels, and public concepts are not equal, resulting in some marriages becoming more "alienated."
This article can only be said to be a very immature view and concept. Maybe in 5 years, 10 years, or 20 years later, after I have experienced more things in life, I will have a richer perspective and deeper view of intimacy and marriage. But no matter which choice you make at the moment, don't be too harsh on your life choices. People always have to try more to know how to take the road ahead.
Purpose: Discussion on women's marriage