Lin Wan, 42, seems to outsiders to be living a decent and stable life.
She is a middle-level employee of a listed company. She has been divorced for five years and is raising her 10-year-old daughter alone. She is responsible for the mortgage and car loan, and has managed to maintain a stable life with the trivial daily necessities of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Everyone else thinks that she is independent, strong, calm and transparent, but she is the only one who knows that she has long been tightly wrapped up in the pressures of life.
In the workplace, the powerful and controlling leader has been suppressing naughty and hidden PUA all year round. For the sake of livelihood and responsibility, she hides her emotions and tolerates every step;
In her life, her parents were full of concerns, intermittent pressure to get married, and excessive interference in life, which constrained her life rhythm at every level;
On the road of love, a failed marriage left scars in the past, and a relationship between a sister and a brother who was 10 years younger ended without any problems. The unfinished regrets and obsessions in her heart became her weakness that she could not let go of.
When she reached middle age, after experiencing marital frustration, emotional entanglements, internal strife in the workplace, and fetters in her life, she finally understood:
The perfection of a middle-aged woman is never to be saved by someone, but to live in warmth for the rest of her life and live as the light that illuminates life.
Purpose: Focus on the difficulties and awakenings of middle-aged women in family, workplace and emotions, convey the power of "growing inwards and living towards warmth", and show self-healing and growth without relying on others or settling for life.