At the engagement party five years ago, the one hundred and twenty invitations written by Shen Nian, the process of staying up late to prepare, and the hand-picked wedding ring all turned into a joke in front of everyone.
Jiang Yu's silence, her mother's slap, Lin Man's knife, and Su Wan's stab in the back pushed her completely into the abyss.
That night, she walked into the rain wearing a soaked wedding dress and said: "Today you isolate me, from now on, I isolate the world."
Five years later, Shen Nian became the travel blogger "Nian Nian Xiang Nan".
She cut off her long hair, carried her camera, and walked alone through Erhai Lake, Qinghai Lake, Kanas, deserts, and snow-capped mountains.
She learned to make breakfast for herself, eat hot pot alone, laugh on the plateau, and say "good morning, Shen Nian" to herself in front of the mirror.
She meets the gentle but unruly photographer Lu Jing. He does not save her, but quietly watches the sunrise with her and takes pictures of star trails.
She wrote all the painful moments in a book called "After Isolating the World, I Finally Owned Myself".
This is not a revenge story, but a story about how a woman breaks free from the prison of a pleaser personality, step by step to find herself, love back, and live like a garden.
Dedicated to all the girls who have ever squatted in the rain and doubted that they were good enough:
You deserve the world, and first, you deserve yourself.
Intent: From extreme flattery to complete self-love, how can a woman truly own herself after being isolated from the world.