This article focuses on the remaining feudal ideas in modern family education and exposes its various manifestations hidden in the concepts of contemporary parents under the guise of "for your own good": solidifying students' identity labels, believing in the absolute authority of parents, using secular templates to kidnap children's choices, suppressing children's emotions and personalities, and judging right and wrong based on old standards. The article points out that this kind of feudal ideology ignores children's independent personality, deprives them of personal preferences and independent choices, and causes children to feel grievances, internal conflicts, and self-doubt. It advocates abandoning old stereotypes, advocating equal respect for parents and children, tolerance of individuality, listening to their voices, breaking away from the shackles of ideas, so that young people can follow their hearts and grow freely.
Purpose: Analyze the feudal ideas of parents that constrain their children's body and mind