I was born in Northeast China, studied abroad for seven years, and took root in Guangdong when I was thirty.
If I didn't tell others, no one would know that my experience would be so rough. Because the first impression I give people is my bright eyes, brisk and lively tone, personality that likes to chat, and a face that shows no trace of influence from my original family. But no one can guess what I have experienced. I will tell it in my story. Please listen slowly.
This book records my ups and downs along the way: the ups and downs brought about by my family, the loneliness of studying in a foreign country, the growth in several relationships, the rush of getting married and raising three children, the running-in and practice in marriage, and the ups and downs of opening a store with big and small packages on my back. It is my autobiography and a healing note I want to write to all those who are struggling in life.
Since 20 years ago, I have wanted to record my life in words, because my experience is not an ordinary growth history in anyone's eyes, because I have experienced too many experiences that my peers have never had.
Since I was a teenager, words have long played the role of soothing my soul, so I am eager to share the little things that have healed me with more people in need.
Of course, this book contains a lot of literary adaptations of reality by me. I hope that friends who happen to know me will not take it personally. Please forgive me!
Purpose: Based on women's real experiences of wandering and growing up for half their lives, it conveys the power of self-healing, encourages readers to embrace the past, face life, and rebuild inner happiness and courage in ordinary daily life.