There are too many of us in Xie Daoyun: she was born at the wrong time, it is difficult to be talented, it is difficult to know each other, it is difficult to be sober, and it is difficult to have peace of mind, she is full of fetters, and her body is like flying catkins. How should she get along with herself and find her way home?
Traveling south from Yongjia, my clothes are wandering. Xie Daoyun, who has the character of the north and grew up in the south of the Yangtze River, was taught by Xie An personally to have a literary background. He is the most talented and talented person in the world, but he has always been incompatible with the world. He can't escape the separation of his life and the limitations of the times.
With a marriage contract, she married into the Wang family in Wuyi and won the favor of the whole family. Her husband, Wang Ningzhi, understands her talents, and her mother-in-law, Xi Xuan, is a talented woman from Jiangzuo whose writing and writing are of the same origin. She has a marriage and family status that are envied by the world, but it is rare for her to truly share the same story.
Confidants have different paths, have the same origin and are incompatible, and have partiality but no redemption. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the ultimate epitome of the northern and southern cultural context: Xi Xuan stayed in the south of the Yangtze River and followed the trend of customs and sought stability in the world; There is no bloody dispute, it is just the long-term differences between the three views and the trend of the times, which are always at odds and difficult to reconcile.
She has a talent for tracing the origins of the world without metaphysics and growing purely through experience. She has awakened step by step over the course of her life: she can see through the differences in contexts, the misalignment of people's hearts, the rise and fall of clans, and the normalcy of troubled times. The double-edged talent gives her a clear vision, but also makes her sober and lonely.
She is fully aware that things are difficult to resolve, but she is stubborn and unwilling to give in; she has seen through the harshness of the world, but still maintains her true character. Trapped in the constraints of etiquette, unrecognized talents, misplaced marriages, and interpersonal pulls, her regrets are common in life in ancient and modern times. The key is how to live her own life.
In troubled times, everyone is seeking peace and contentment, but only Xie Daoyun, whose body is like floating catkins, has never returned for half his life, does not compromise with the times, and does not bow to fate.
Half the life of wandering is just a shadow, the rest of the life is the way back. In troubled times, there was no place to return, so she stood firm with her integrity, settled with her true heart, and lived to her own perfection in the unexplainable world.
Purpose: This book is based on Xie Daoyun's real life, describing the sobriety and self-growth of a talented woman in troubled times. Even if you are born at the wrong time, your talents are difficult to apply, and there is no one with you, how can you maintain your integrity, not follow the world, and not compromise? Please see how Xie Daoyun accepted regrets and settled his true feelings during his wandering years. The work conveys the core idea of not seeking stability from the outside world, nor hoping for redemption from others; instead, it is the core concept of peace of mind, which is perfection, and interprets the independent power of women to take root inward, self-healing, and self-fulfillment.