She was born in a poor rural area in the north. She grew up in a state of neglect that favored boys over girls. She was looked down upon by her relatives and villagers, and her inferiority complex was engraved in her bones. She was sensitive and strong at the same time. She knew since she was a child that only by studying hard can she get out of the mountains and change her destiny, so she studied hard all the way from the countryside to get a doctorate, and then broke into the city on her own.
She married hastily due to lack of love, and her husband could not shoulder the responsibilities of the family. Unwilling to admit defeat, she had no choice but to study for a Ph. D. And start a business on her own. Although she was very capable, she encountered the epidemic and had no choice but to lose more than three million yuan in debt. Her partners were backstabbing, relatives and friends were flattering her, and her friends were adding insult to injury...
While she was in debt, her mother died of cancer early, and her father left all his real estate and property to his younger brother. Even though she started a business with a debt of three million, she still chose to obey. Her marriage was broken, and she was forced to shoulder all the burdens for her son, who was her only support for survival at that time...
Soon her father was critically ill again, and she tried her best to seek medical care. For three years, she paid off a debt of two million yuan and shouldered all responsibilities on her own.
Shopping mall calculations, the severe impact of the epidemic, the pressure of doctoral thesis defense, betrayal and separation from relatives, the ups and downs of life... She was bruised all over her body, and for a time she closed her heart and no longer trusted anyone or any relationship.
Step by step, she gritted her teeth and became a university psychology teacher and senior psychological counselor on her own. She held the scars of countless visitors and tenderly redeemed them. Everyone said that she was healing the world, but only she knew that it was those sincerities and resonance that quietly mended her broken soul.
Purpose: This is a growth history written for all women who are carrying a heavy load - true strength is not that you have never been injured, but that you still choose to bear, choose kindness, and choose self-salvation after being scarred. The growth of Chinese women is a lonely but brave self-development.