Some people say that Du Shiniang is the first winner in the ages - she won love with dignity and won eternity with destruction. But is this true?
The conversation started with this question, but it didn't stop with Du Shiniang. It asked along the way:
· Why did Du Shiniang have so much money, but still couldn't escape the fate of being "materialized"?
· Why did the parents give the house to their son not out of favor, but because they were caught in the middle by the system?
· Why do men yearn for "unconditional acceptance" throughout their lives but are never allowed to say it?
· Why does online "awakening" often become a new privilege, while real awakening is silent?
· Why do LGBT people need not "pity" but respect?
· Why is it that the cages of successful people may be made of gold wire, but are still suffocating?
In the end, the conversation landed on the most private and heaviest place - an ordinary person with inconvenient hands and feet due to cerebral hemorrhage, who flinched time and time again when he met the girl. What he fears most is not rejection, but the voice inside: "I'm not good enough, I'm not 'normal' enough."
This is not a debate, there are no winners or losers. This is a "seeing" done by two people together: seeing how the system shapes everyone, seeing the suffering behind every identity, seeing that people on the opposite side are also victims, and seeing the railing that they are most afraid to face.
If you have ever felt trapped by something but couldn't tell what it was; if you are tired of the confrontation and slogans online and want to try another path - this conversation may be able to accompany you for a short journey.
It's not the answer. It is a road.
Intention: How far can we go when we let go of opposition, labels, and the obsession that "I must be right."
