When he was three years old, he stole his mother's sanitary napkins and put them in his pants. He didn't understand why he couldn't use what his mother could use. At the age of five, in a girls' bathhouse, he discovered for the first time that his body was different from everyone else's. When he was six years old, he put on the red skirt with white flowers made by his grandmother and twirled in front of the mirror. It was the happiest moment in his life.
He grew up among women in a Shanghai alley. His grandmother made him skirts, his aunt taught him how to put on lipstick, and his aunt said that "there is no distinction between men and women in dancing." His sister gave him his first rose. He thought he could stay like this forever, but his father's slap told him: "You are a boy, don't do these sissy things."
He hid for more than 20 years, hiding in Beijing until he met Shen Yu - the person who handed him a cup of coffee on a rainy day, the person who saw him wearing a skirt and said "you look good", the person who said "I like you no matter what you look like" under the moonlight in Jiuzhaigou. He thought he could finally be himself, but his father's call brought him back to his original state.
He married someone he shouldn't have married, and she married someone she shouldn't have married. After three years of marriage, the two of them lived in lies. When she saw him wearing a white dress kissing another man on the street, her world collapsed. But she didn't fall. She stood up from the ruins, opened a company, became a queen, and met someone who truly loved her.
And he finally walked into the operating room in line with his father's last words, "Go ahead and be yourself."
This is a story about a person who was born in the wrong body and spent thirty years before he was finally seen by his family, accepted by his lover, and forgiven by himself. All wounds will heal, it's just a matter of time.
Motto: It's never too late to be yourself. All wounds in this world will heal, it's just a matter of time.