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The author only analyzes and interprets the plot trend based on the creation of the original work, and uses this as a reference to how we can learn and reflect, how we can live a good life, and how to face the problems that everyone may encounter.
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I have always felt that this article is actually of great value, and there is no other article that can compare to it in my heart.
Its value does not lie in chasing the wife in the crematorium, it does not lie in the fact that the heroine is free and easy to say that she does not love her, it does not lie in the fact that the heroine is more playful than the male protagonist, so having such a heroine makes people feel relieved, and it does not lie in its harmonious content, nor is it a cold-faced underwear washing. In this article, the physical and mental purity of the male and female protagonists, or who has the upper hand between the two, are the least worthy of attention. What is important is whether you have seen the trauma and self-protection of the person in the relationship, and whether this trauma and self-protection attitude are exactly the same as yours. Have you seen how the protagonist of this article copes with all this? Have you realized anything from it and learned the method?
I don't know whether the author of this article is intentional or not, but I think she has a very good grasp of the weaknesses, insecurities and self-protection of people in relationships, and finally gives the answer to the problem. All this has its origin. Fang Qingning's attitude towards relationships can be attributed to the self-protection method learned from the trauma of his original family. Chen Yize seems to be a crazy control freak, but he is not the sense of security that Fang Qingning needs deep down in his heart. I think the second half of the plot is simply the finishing touch, because Fang Qingning begins to be forced to face issues that she has always avoided, and Chen Yize forces her to face those things that may hurt and hurt her. This is not about the strong men and women that many people find annoying, but about being addicted to the "Wife Chasing Crematorium" script, and readers who are unwilling to be hurt face the things they fear most in their hearts. At that time, I could not help but think that Chen Yize was an almost perfect character created by the author. He was a woman's fantasy, but such a person did not exist in reality.
At the same time, it shows us the life and outlook of rich people to a certain extent, because it feels like what the author describes is really like the people in that circle. Don't feel that you don't understand, maybe people of their class are like this, because they have too much wealth, and it may be really normal for them to put interests first. Take this as a lesson, you can check with yourself, can you accept the rules of their world? Do you see here the cruel environment in which children from old-money families grow up, and therefore think that it is more important for their children to have a normal and loving family than anything else?
In fact, the emergence of any relationship is only for cultivating you. In the end, living with anyone is actually living with yourself. Have your wounds been healed, have the things you avoid been properly resolved, have your obsessions been let go. When you have cultivated yourself to perfection, you will be complete, and you will no longer be afraid of any relationship.
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