He is INFJ, fearful avoidant. I have been in love for 11 times, and each time it ended in the same way: start, get closer, and then escape.
She is an ENFP, a happy puppy who learns and grows in every relationship.
They met at night in Shenzhen Bay. Temptation, bravery, sweetness, entanglement, understanding, hurt, giving up. In the end, she sent two recordings, revealing all his fears, avoidances, and areas of lack of growth. They were silent for half a year.
Half a year later, she sent a message: "I was passing by Shenzhen Bay today and suddenly thought of you."
Then he asked a question: If we only talked about the body and not the feelings - would you like it?
She knew she shouldn't think about him anymore. But the body doesn't recognize these principles. It only remembers those temperatures.
Concept: Body memory precedes reason, those momentary temperatures are real