Many people hope that they can be rich and successful. They always say that rich people are so good, they can drive foreign cars, live in villas, marry beautiful women, and how happy life is. Hope you can become a millionaire, a multi-millionaire, or even a billionaire.
But he is picky about his life in every possible way, he dislikes this and that, says this is not good, says that that is not good: he has good facial features and is not deaf or mute, but he thinks he is not handsome enough or beautiful enough; he thinks he is not handsome enough or beautiful enough; he thinks he is not good enough to eat and clothes, but he thinks he is not good enough; You have a wife who loves you, but you think your wife is not beautiful enough; you have a husband who loves you, but you think your husband is not rich enough; you have filial children, but you think your children are not smart enough... Anyway, you are making your apparently happy and perfect life worthless.
But when you dislike these, do you know that I am actually envious of you. I envy your life. I envy your ordinary but happy life. I envy your ordinary but extremely happy family life.
And I am exactly what you want to be. I am rich, very rich, even billionaires may not be as good as me. I have a foreign car, a villa, and beautiful women to choose from.
However, I am not happy at all. The life of a rich person is not as beautiful as you imagine. My life is so empty, my life is not free, and my life is so painful.
Having money is not such a good thing. In fact, being ordinary is the real happiness.
In the next life, I hope I can be more ordinary. (Please see "Ordinary Rebirth")
Don't be as "extraordinary" but "painful" as this life.