When I was very young, I once heard someone say that a woman will encounter a catastrophe in her life, but she may never encounter it, or she may not be able to extricate herself in her life.
In that situation, one foot is still on the land of the human world, while the other foot has stepped into the kingdom of the dead.
Later, until I met him, I realized that this catastrophe did not refer to the pain of childbirth. Childbirth will bring new life, but this may bring the disillusionment of an old soul. However, he continues to live like a zombie.
However, I am so lucky to be able to turn danger into safety.