Li Ying had a problem when she was a child: she talked too much and had more problems.
When her parents quarreled, she would get in the middle and ask, "What's the quarrel about?"; When her mother and grandma quarreled, she would move a small bench and act as judge.
The adults were tired of being asked, so they invented a set of all-purpose replies——
"This is business, don't worry about it."
"That's business, stop asking."
After saying that, he pointed out the window: Xiao Li downstairs is crying, go and ask; Xiaohua next door fell, go and help.
Li Ying ran away.
Over time, she understood: Ask less about business matters and pay more attention to noisy matters.
This year, I am twenty-seven years old, a second-generation native of the demolished household, a graduate of a prestigious university, and have been unemployed for three years.
When her elders urged her to find a job, she said sincerely: "Don't ask about my business."
Yes. When she was eighteen years old, her family transferred eight apartments to her, and the rent was paid every month, which was higher than her working salary.
Since you don't have to worry about business, just mind your own business.
The security guard was called "honey" by a health product salesperson, and his pension was about to run out, so she took care of it;
The daughter of the aunt at the vegetable market wants to report to the excavation team to excavate Qin Shihuang's tomb. She has no control over whether the whole family lives or dies;
When a neighbor's couple gets divorced, the house and the car are clearly distinguished, and a fight breaks out over who owns an orange cat, it's her responsibility;
...
I was in charge, and found that I was also being "controlled"————
The man who appeared at the scene of the business changed from "passing by" to "present" at some point.
The relationship between the two is like those nosy things she takes care of - no status, but everywhere.
Until one day she discovered————
This person is the biggest "noisy thing" she has ever encountered in her life.
Intention: Regardless of business or leisure, as long as it is business, it is business.