## Introduction to "Narcissism"
When he was twenty-five years old, Jiang Qiyong had a car accident.
Before he fell into coma, he heard a voice: "Did you hide in because you couldn't wait for anyone?"
When he woke up, he was lying in the Tongzi Building where he lived twenty years ago. In front of him squatted a ten-year-old child, wearing a blue sweater that had been washed white, and his face showed a calmness that he had learned too early.
That's himself.
He is sick. Narcissistic personality disorder, psychiatrists say. He lived with a brown paper shield for twenty-five years, fell in love several times, and each time he pushed away the other person before he came close.
Now he went back to fifteen years ago and saw himself who had not learned to push anyone away.
He began to take care of him "conveniently" - until the way the child looked at him changed from dependence to something else.
Until he himself started to feel excited.
They are the same person. They have exactly the same face. He fell in love with himself fifteen years ago. He doesn't know if this is called narcissism or love. He only knew that every time he saw him, the manila shield in his heart would have another crack.
——What would you do if you met yourself fifteen years ago?
——I will fall in love with him.
Concept: Love is not a talent, it is an ability. This ability needs to be learned in being loved. There is a child in everyone's heart who has not been properly loved. Some people hide him and use indifference as armor; some people expose him and use sunshine as disguise. But real healing is not about hiding or pretending. It was seeing him. Give him a hug. Tell him: you deserve to be loved. Even the way of falling in love is different from everyone.