I once struggled and doubted myself late at night over a message that had not been responded to.
I carefully expressed my feelings, gave in gently and considerately, and put all my expectations in his reply, but I was disappointed in the silence time and time again.
It wasn't until the moment when I couldn't wait for the news anymore that I finally woke up:
His lack of initiative, lack of response, and lack of appreciation was never because he was busy, but just because he didn't care enough.
I no longer ask questions, no longer fight internally, and no longer make excuses for his indifference.
I wrote all my grievances, expectations and unwillingness into my own story.
When the story was written, I also finished writing all my obsession with him.
Later, his understatement in response could no longer stir up any turmoil in my heart.
It turns out that the most satisfactory ending is not to be firmly chosen by him.
But I finally let go of my anxiety and love myself.
Purpose: Taking a relationship that has become sober due to silence and no response as the starting point, it describes the sensitivity, internal friction and self-pull of a gentle person in love, and finally breaks the dilemma of "waiting for recognition" and shifts from being obsessed with being loved to loving oneself firmly. Core Purpose: Your worth is never proven by other people's responses.