She writes to her young self, her cheating father, her resentful mother, her patriarchal elders, her obesity and low self-esteem that is not popular among her classmates. She stands on the other side of time and looks at her stubbornness along the way. She is grateful and bitter. In just three years, Xu Linqi got rid of the harm caused by her original family and reshaped her self-worth system. She gained and lost. In the process of getting out of my original family, I gradually understood that after dumping my ex-boyfriend, I was just an ordinary girl who had not fully grown up. I did not complain about all the suffering the world had given me, and I was not dominated by them, because I had my own way to go. The premise for wanting to see the world and experience all the good things in the world is: I must first become myself, be highly independent in my spiritual world, be able to control my emotions, and become my own mountain.
Adults will not understand all the grievances of children and the shadow of the original family. In this book, I will let you see it. Please remember that your life is still long, and don't stop for anyone. We are not born to be favored by fate, but I will also bloom flowers in the mud, and you will always become a satisfactory version of yourself.
Intention: Be your own mountain