Wenbo has been a boy for sixteen years.
He had a boy's name, a boy's identity, and a boy's life, until a physical examination shattered all the things he took for granted - he was a rare intersex person.
The mother's dream of her daughter, which she had suppressed for many years, suddenly awakened. On the day of his surgery, she signed a gender change document for him without authorization.
No questions, no choices, just a silent "I want a daughter."
From then on, there was no scholar in the world, only a strange "she" who was forced to live as a girl.
The gender has been forcibly reversed, the body cannot be recognized, the past cannot be returned, and the future cannot be seen clearly.
How should she face this rewritten life, and how should she find her true self?
Purpose: This article focuses on the experience of an intersex boy, Wen Bo, who was forced to change his gender and re-recognize himself, to explore the contradictions and struggles between body, gender and self-identity.
The story focuses on how a young man who has been forcibly rewritten his life faces his arranged destiny and true heart under the circumstances of torn identity, dislocated family ties, and social discipline.
The work intends to reveal that gender should not be defined by others. The true self is never shaped, but the result of being seen, respected, and accepted by oneself.
It calls for understanding and tolerance for minority groups and people with special physiques, opposes control and deprivation in the name of love, and discusses that everyone should have the right to choose their own life and accept themselves as they are.