Under the "hidden pressure" of our original family, we, who are sensitive and sensible, will always be attracted by "vivid differences", even if this love is wrapped in the edges of consumption and the "trauma imprint" of unhealthy first love, which together form some fog of self-denial. Lin Xingci's feelings for Jiang Yu are more of pure heartbeat and obsession - he likes the novelty of his breaking his "must be excellent", and he likes his tolerance and warmth when they first met, but he fell into an unhealthy relationship of "self-internal friction". Growth never means denying this true love, but seeing clearly that "like ≠ appropriateness", learning to identify healthy emotional patterns after the pain, and finally understanding: good love will make you stretch instead of curling up; true love deserves to be cherished, not consumed. Growing up is never about criticizing one's "original family" or "past injuries". It is about seeing the truth of emotional trauma and accepting the imperfections of the family while rediscovering the wasted personality charm - the hindsight of parents, the self-awareness of self-resilience, and the continuous support of love. Eventually, the haze of "denial" will dissipate, and one can live a confident and relaxed life that dares to love and hate. Finally understand: only those who love themselves can be loved, and the "imperfection" that blooms freely is the most precious aspect of life.
Purpose: Find yourself