Loving someone doesn't require a reason, but it does require conditions. Today's men and women, apart from pure admiration in school days, probably have to weigh each other's conditions before composing every love song. Family, career, education, and appearance are all taken into consideration, and it's a pleasure to choose between you and me. But he seems to have forgotten that what the other person has now only represents his past, but it does not mean that it will accompany him throughout his life. Few people can wear gorgeous clothes all their lives. The clothes some people wear now do not mean they will fit forever. They may be taken away by others one day and become nothing. The choice you made because of his gorgeous coat will now only make you lament the impermanence of the world; some people are now dressed in rags, but after their unremitting efforts, they finally appear in front of you, but you have missed the time of love, and it is too late to regret. Choosing a partner is a lifelong matter, so you must keep your eyes open to see what his future will look like.