She finally understood that the so-called "re-planning of life" in those years was not as good as following the voice of her heart; those days of living to cater to others were not worth the happiness she felt from the bottom of her heart every time she was with Shen Yue. It turns out that the best life is never "starting over", but "starting from the heart".
Intention: We always struggle and re-plan in the expectations of the outside world, but we forget that what we should follow most in life is our own heart. What the story wants to convey is: Real growth is not about overthrowing the past and starting over, but learning to bravely choose the direction that makes you happy in the current life. When you no longer live to cater to others and no longer kidnap yourself with "shoulds", you will find that every step you take from your heart leads to your unique happiness.