If love is an open-book exam and I have the standard answers, why did I still get a zero?
Su Jianwei's doubts started from the starry night that perfectly recreated the confession at the age of twenty-five, and ended with the wedding planning dialog box on the phone with the note "Ms. Li". After a vote from the "Scientific Scumbag" group of best friends determined that her boyfriend Gu Jianming was "pretending to be affectionate" with an 85% probability, she began to use the "List of Questionable Points" to measure this suffocating love: the career planning document at 04:27 in the morning, the mental health plan tailored for her, and her daily routine of accurately calculating the breakfast temperature.
When she followed him into the psychological clinic, the truth came crashing down - the diagnosis read "over-responsibility syndrome." The man she thought was acting perfect was actually trapped in childhood trauma, using excessive giving to resist the fear of not being needed. And her suspicion became the last straw that broke his back.
After the collapse comes desolation. Su Jianwei saw the gene of familial trust trauma in her father's deathbed confession: "I spent my whole life looking for evidence that your mother doesn't love me." She began to clumsily learn to be independent: she repaired the kitchen, was treated as a liar, and developed her scars into a small emotional analysis program "Hindsight."
Three years later, Gu Jianming sent the "mini-tower" design drawings and formulas from Australia: earthquake resistance level = log (trust value) × 10 - suspected earthquake level. They reunited under the starry sky at the exhibition and exchanged their respective diagnoses and growth. Stop saying "forever" and just say: "Will you continue to learn to 'believe' with me?"
Love is not a standard answer, but a lifelong practice of choosing to believe even after doubting.
Purpose: To reflect the reality that men and women get along easily due to the influence of external factors, such as the poisonous chicken soup of best friends.