You always reply to his messages instantly, no matter when and where.
At six o'clock in the morning, the screen of your mobile phone lights up. It's "Good morning" from him. You rub your eyes and immediately reply with a smiley "Good morning. I'll try my best today."
For the first time, you didn't reply to his message immediately.
The next morning, you didn't say "good morning" as usual.
Your phone is lying quietly in your bag. You are busy washing, eating breakfast, catching the subway, and even forget to take a look.
It wasn't until almost noon that you remembered to turn on your phone.
There are three unread messages on the screen, all from him:
"Why didn't you reply?"
"Still angry?"
"No, I just said it casually yesterday."
When you look at these messages, there is no wave in your heart, only an unprecedented calmness.
You didn't reply, put your phone back in your pocket and continued working.
In the afternoon, he sent another message: "Let's have dinner together tonight?"
It took an hour for you to reply: "No, I have to work overtime."
This is the first time you've declined his invitation.
He didn't reply.
Over the next few days, you seemed like a different person.
You no longer reply to his messages immediately. Sometimes you will wait for an hour or two before replying, or even forget to reply.
You no longer take the initiative to chat with him. When he sends messages, you simply respond and no longer rack your brains to find topics.
You start spending time on yourself.
Purpose: Only by loving yourself can you gain the love of others