Pathological attachment refers to a deep, systemic, and destructive pattern of intimate relationships. In this model, connection is not based on healthy, equal love and respect, but on fear, manipulation, addiction, and repetitive trauma.
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Chen Youming is fifteen years older than Wen Ran.
The biggest failure in his life was picking up his stress source - Wen Ran.
She is dirty, ugly, poor, and smells like a stray animal. He has a naughty personality, is greedy, and doesn't know how to take advantage of others. He is the kind of bad boy who is annoying from the inside out.
He thought he had never had any feelings for Wen Ran, but Wen Ran suffered from separation anxiety and could hardly leave him for half a step.
They have been getting along in a weird way for many years. If Wen Ran is around, he will put out his cigarette immediately. On the surface, he doesn't care much, or he is very bored with Wen Ran. In fact, his eyes will be fixed on her to see what kind of mistakes she has made today, or whether she has complied with the rules he has set. Probably the most important thing is to see what her needs are. He will give her water, urge her to eat, and ask her not to play mobile games for too long.
Once something happens to Wen Ran, he will be unable to breathe as if he was drowning.
Later he understood.
There probably wasn't any reason, explanation, reason between him and Wen Ran.
It's just an animalistic attachment.
Or it's instinct, or it's an inexplicable symbiosis.
If Wen Ran has separation anxiety from him, then he should have PTSD from Wen Ran.
They are not normal.
Intention: We cannot choose how to be loved, but in the end we can choose how to repay the world with love.