There are more and more older leftover women. These older leftover women often promote the idea of not falling in love, not getting married, and not having children on various public video accounts and variety shows. This seems to be the awakening of self-awareness and the arrival of the female era, but it has placed a heavy burden on the entire society. In reality, it is difficult for these older leftover women to fall in love and get married, but it is easy to get divorced after marriage. What is the problem? Is it the result of practical problems such as widespread fertility and education in society, or is it a tragedy and social problem caused by a pathological psychology and distorted cognition? Mr. Wang Yangming, the master of mind science, told the world with the profound thoughts of a philosopher that a person's inner world and outer world are actually unified inside and outside. What kind of inner world a person has has the same kind of outer world. So, for older leftover women, the root cause of lack of love is not meeting the right person? Is it because of reality that I want to love but dare not? Is the root cause of lack of security due to breach of trust in interpersonal relationships? From the perspective of inner psychology, this book analyzes the morbid psychology and distorted cognition that are the root causes of older leftover women. It aims to call on society to pay attention to women's mental health. It hopes that older leftover women can break out of their cocoons and be reborn by returning to their hearts and inner world, bravely embrace love, and finally move towards a happy marriage and a happy emotional life.
Purpose: I hope that older leftover women can break out of their cocoons and be reborn by returning to their hearts and inner world, bravely embrace love, and ultimately move towards a happy marriage and achieve a happy emotional life.