Childhood is always wrapped in sugar - snacks specially left by grandparents, unlimited love from parents, and carefree playing with friends. She didn't know at that time that when she grew up, she would never have it again in her lifetime.
In junior high school, she comforted herself that it was okay during countless tearful nights, but she tightened her grip on her pen when she saw her classmates being picked up by their parents. Adolescent girls always fall in love with what their parents call "yellow men." She is very self-righteous and always thinks that the boy she likes will be different, but the reality gives her a hard slap in the face. In high school, I met a boy who was attracted to me, and I also saw the tenderness in a girl's eyes, but these feelings ended in hesitation and ignorance. Her biggest gain from her youthful and ignorant relationship was to love others first and love yourself first.
The contradiction in human nature is particularly clear in family members - I miss their warmth while avoiding their coldness. This feeling is not balanced in my heart, and even mentioning it is a little tangled.
She never seems to be able to understand the rules of how this society works. The words that impressed her the most were: This society over-advocates female independence, but most men rely on their families to buy cars and houses, and no one says they are not independent. The sign of a woman's true maturity is not to get rid of dependence, but to learn to leverage and coexist, to put herself in the dominant position, so that everything can be used by her.
Intention: See your own integrity in the folds of human nature