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What Are You Running From: the Truth You Are Afraid to Face Will Make You Grow
Jon Fredrickson
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We feel pain because we habitually deceive ourselves to avoid temporary pain. Maybe we swallow the lies of "it's all my fault" and "I'm a bad person" to refuse to admit that "the person who hurt me is bad" just because you love that person very much; we may also tell ourselves a lie "things will get better" instead of facing the broken marriage. By lying to ourselves, we can live in our original illusions, desperately suppress our feelings, desires, and impulses, stay stuck in place, persist in
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